Before you start studying the articles on Soul Ties I want to
encourage you and say that all the information you read and study on
this, please take it to the Lord and ask Him to reveal to you how this
applies to your life and to reveal the soul ties that are binding you.
If you are always bitter, angry, thinking of the past, feeling
rejected and any other things or people that you are constantly
meditating on you are probably tied to those things. The Lord is
wanting all His children free so that they can give Him all of
themselves. Spending time with Him and being intimate with Him is
where He really talks to you. Do not be to busy that you cannot give
Him time. That is where He reveals the deeper things of Him.
I was working on the site tonight the Holy Spirit spoke to my heart
and said to encourage each one that reads this to meditate on it,
learn it and ask Him to reveal to you even deeper insights and to go
forth and teach our younger generation all about the dangers of
ungodly or sexual soul ties. As we know sex among the young teenagers
is running rampant, and they need to be taught to keep themselves pure
and free. Being soul tied to many scatters the soul and will keep them
in bondage to many. It is time for us as believers to take authority
over these bondages and to pray for our young people. It is time to
possess our souls back from the enemy. The Fathers heart and my heart
cry out to you tonight. Help fight for our Youth, help them get free
and stay free. Jesus is the way, the truth and the light. No one but
Jesus can fill the void that people long for.
As you look at this teaching on soul ties, I pray that your eyes
of understanding be enlightened and that it will set you free. Jesus
came that we could have life, and have it more abundantly. This
day will you choose life. You cannot move forward with God if you
cannot resolve the things of the past. Whatever you are preoccupied
with in your mind, and meditate on those things all the time, and
cannot hear the voice of the Holy Spirit, you are probably soul tied
to something or someone.
The Father brought you to this site for a reason. He loves you so
much, He always wants the best for you.
Deu 10:20 Thou shalt fear the LORD thy God; him shalt thou serve, and
to him shalt thou cleave, and swear by his name.
Deuteronomy 10 Amplified
20You shall [reverently] fear the Lord your God; you shall serve Him
and cling to Him, and by His name and presence you shall swear
1 Cor 6:17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
1 Corinthians 6: 17 Amplified
But the person who is united to the Lord becomes one spirit
1 Cor 2:16 for who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may
instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.
1 Corinthians 2:16 Amplified
For who has known or understood the mind (the counsels and purposes)
of the Lord so as to guide and instruct Him and give Him knowledge?
But we have the mind of Christ (the Messiah) and do hold the thoughts
(feelings and purposes) of His heart
A soul tie is the knitting together of two souls that can
either bring tremendous blessings in a Godly relationship or
tremendous destruction when made with the wrong persons.
A soul tie in the Bible can be described not only by the word
knit, but also by the word cleave, which means to bring close
together, follow close after, be attached to someone, or adhere to one
another as with glue.
GODLY SOUL TIES
1 Sam 18:1 -3 And it came to pass, when he had made an end of
speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul
of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. And Saul took
him that day, and would let him go no more home to his father's house.
Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his
own soul. KJV.
1 Samuel 18:1-4 Amplified
1WHEN DAVID had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of
Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as
his own life. Saul took David that day and would not let him return to
his father's house. Then Jonathan made a covenant with David,
because he loved him as his own life. And Jonathan stripped himself of
the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, even his
sword, his bow, and his girdle.
David and Jonathan actually formed a covenant because they loved each
other so deeply. Their souls were knit together (tied or joined
The stronger the bonding or soul ties between friends the deeper and
more lasting the relationship is. The emotional and mental strengths
of one sustain the other in times of adversity. (Difficulties or
misfortune) and allows them to rejoice with the other in the time of
When love between friends is pure and not polluted by any selfish
desire, the bond between them works well in their lives.
Jesus speaks of this kind of love in John 15:13 Greater love hath
no man than this that a man lay down his life for his friends.
That is the kind of love Jonathan and David had, and that is why it
was a Godly soul tie. Because of this type of Godly soul tie, it
formed the basis for a good marriage and an enduring relationship.
They truly had a great friendship, and because of the deepness and
pureness, the two souls drew strength and encouragement from each
other as well as security and love.
In order to have this kind of friendship, you have to very selective
and get wisdom from God. The Holy Spirit will teach you how to have
this kind of relationship. It takes people that have a pure and giving
heart and puts their love in action. If you have a close friend in
your life right now and they have these characteristics that is good.
If they are selfish and controlling, you need to pray and get the
wisdom from above on what to do, because the friendship could become
dangerous, because your souls are knit together, emotionally and this
is not a Godly soul tie.
Eccl 4:9-12 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward
for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his
fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not
another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have
heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him,
two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Eccl 4:9-12 Amplified
Two are better than one, because they have a good [more
satisfying] reward for their labor; For if they fall, the one will
lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has
not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie down together,
then they have warmth; but how can one be warm alone? And though
a man might prevail against him who is alone, two will withstand him.
A threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Mat 18:19 Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on
earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for
them of my Father which is in heaven.
Matthew 18:19 Amplified
Again I tell you, if two of you on earth agree (harmonize together,
make a symphony together) about whatever [anything and
everything] they may ask, it will come to pass and be done for them by
My Father in heaven.
The early church in the book of acts was so explosive and experienced
such power and the reason was they were unified.
Acts 4:32-35 And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart
and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things
which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common.
And with great power gave the apostles witness of the resurrection of
the Lord Jesus: and great grace was upon them all. Neither
was there any among them that lacked: for as many as were possessors
of lands or houses sold them, and brought the prices of the things
that were sold,
And laid them
down at the apostles' feet: and distribution was made unto every man
according as he had need.
UNGODLY SOUL TIES
While a soul tie will develop between any two people who are open
to one another, the strength of those soul ties depends upon how
deeply involved with another their heart becomes. You can become soul
tied to family, friends, co-workers and the leadership you are under.
Unity we have with others is an open expression of our soul ties.
Carefully examine our friends (male or Female) before it becomes a
covenant or relationship, because people that come into our lives can
influence the shaping of our lives and our walk with Jesus.
6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what
fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion
hath light with darkness?
2 Cor 6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath
he that believeth with an infidel?
2 Cor 6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for
ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in
them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my
2 Cor 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate,
saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive
2 Cor 6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and
daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
Check their motives, here are a few things to watch for.
1.Is this person a compromising person or is it their way or no
2. Are they self-centered?
3.Do they have a giving spirit or do they always want to take?
4.Are they kind, gentle and above all loving?
5 Are they saved and walking with Jesus?
6 Are they controlling or manipulative? Beware
When a person who is bonded to another is governed by impure
motives or the desire for selfish gain, the soul tie between them can
enable (make able) that selfish one to manipulate and abuse the other.
A person can actually control another through soul ties, because the
minds of the two are open to one another.
In ungodly relationships these soul ties may place us in emotional and
mental bondage to others and causing us to do and say things to our
Rom 8:15 For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear;
but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba,
Romans 8:15 Amplified
For [the Spirit which] you have now received [is] not a spirit of
slavery to put you once more in bondage to fear, but you have received
the Spirit of adoption [the Spirit producing sonship] in [the bliss
of] which we cry, Abba (Father)! Father
Ungodly soul ties can potentially establish if the relationship is not
under the Lordship of Christ. God demands first place in our hearts,
spouses are to be second, followed by children, family, friends and
When our strongest soul tie is to God, there is a divine covering and
protection that will enable us to withstand forming ungodly soul ties.
The Holy Ghost.
Isa 54:5 For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his
name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole
earth shall he be called.
Eph 5:30-31 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his
bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,
and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one
Ephesians 5:31-32 Amplified
For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall
be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This
mystery is very great, but I speak concerning [the relation of] Christ
and the church.
Sexual Soul Ties
Since the sexual union of marriage ties two souls as one, what do
you think happens if a person commits fornication or adultery with
another person outside of the marriage? Actually, your soul becomes
mysteriously knit and tied to the other person also. They cleaved
together just as in marriage. The soul ties formed through illicit
sexual involvement can be as strong and binding as those formed
through the marriage covenant.
Gen 34:1-3 And Dinah the daughter of Leah, which she bare unto Jacob
went out to seethe daughters of the land. And when Shechem the son of Hamor the
Hivite, prince of the country, saw her, he took her, and lay with her,
and defiled her.
And his soul clave unto Dinah the daughter of Jacob, and he loved the
damsel, and spake kindly unto the damsel.
The above scriptures give an illustration of how fornication and
immorality form soul ties Actually Shechem did not love Dinah he just
lusted for after he had raped her.
Gen 34:8 And Hamor communed with them, saying the soul of my
son Shechem longeth for your daughter: I pray you give her him to
wife. Sexual involvement can form such entangling tentacles of soul
ties that it is extremely hard to break off the relationship.
God, The Father designed the universe to function with natural
and spiritual laws that bring freedom when obeyed, but bondage and
destruction when broken and violated. Just as two souls can be knit or
made to cleave together in a covenant relationship, they can also be
tied or knit together to form bondage and enslavement. Sexual union
was ordained by God to make two marriage partners one flesh before
God, but promiscuous premarital and extramarital affairs can
mysteriously tie ones soul to many partners. We seem to misunderstand
the seriousness in these soul ties. It is because of lack of knowledge
that we perish. Paul warns us in 1 Cor.6: 16& 18.
1 Cor 6:16-18 Do you not know that he who unites himself with a
prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "The two will
become one flesh." But he who unites himself with the Lord is one
with him in spirit. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man
commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against
his own body.
Corinthians 6:16-18 Amplified
Or do you not know and realize that when a man joins himself to a
prostitute, he becomes one body with her? The two, it is written,
shall become one flesh, But the person who is united to the Lord
becomes one spirit with Him. Shun immorality and all sexual looseness
[flee from impurity in thought, word, or deed]. Any other sin which a
man commits is one outside the body, but he who commits sexual
immorality sins against his own body.
If you are in a sexual relationship right now outside of marriage STOP
it now. No matter what kind of things satan tells you about it
is ok, that you are in love. Your life will become so entangled that
you want even know what is going on. You will be cursed.
Prov. 5:20 -22And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange
woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth
all his goings.
His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be
holden with the cords of his sins.
5:20-22 Amplified :Why should you, my son, be infatuated with a loose
woman, embrace the bosom of an outsider, and go astray? For the
ways of man are directly before the eyes of the Lord, and He Who would
have us live soberly, chastely, and godly] carefully weighs all man's
goings. His own iniquities shall ensnare the wicked man, and he shall
be held with the cords of his sin.
PLEASE PRAY THIS PRAYER BELIEVING YOU ARE FREE
"Father God, in Jesus' name, I humbly ask you to forgive me
and cleanse me of the sin of fornication. I acknowledge it as sin and
ask you to help me forsake in completely. I thank you for your
forgiveness, in Jesus' name. "Lord God, I come before your throne
of grace boldly, and covered in the shed blood of your Son. In Jesus'
mighty name, I ask you to cut any and all ungodly soul ties between
myself and anyone else [say NAME or NAMES if appropriate and
remembered] created by sexual acts or any other relationship, known or
unknown, remembered or forgotten. Please Father, take the Sword of the
Holy Spirit and separate my human spirit with the human spirits of
anyone with whom I have ungodly sexual contact. In Jesus' name, I ask
You to cleanse those ties by the blood of Jesus of any possible access
through which Satan can trouble me or my family. "By the
authority of the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I break the power of
any and all covenants, contracts, dedications or commissions made over
me [or my children, if any]. In the name of Jesus Christ, my Lord, I
now command any and all demons which may have come into me by ungodly
soul ties or any other sin to leave me at once, never to return. I
bind you all together as one, and I weaken you with the Blood of
Calvary. I command you to go where the Lord Jesus Christ tells you to
go by the voice of His Holy Spirit.
"Abba Father, in Jesus' mighty name, I ask you to shut any doorways of
demonic access opened into my life by ungodly soul ties or any other
sort of sexual sin, and I ask you to seal those doorways forever with
the Blood of the Lamb, shed on the cross of Calvary. I thank you for
doing this, in Jesus' name, Amen
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As you study
and meditate on all the soul tie teachings, please ask the Lord to
show you how He wants to use you to share all this with others. The
Holy Spirit will help you. He is our teacher. God the Father wants His
people set free. There are many that are seeking the Lord, but are so
bound up with soul ties they cannot open their heart to Him. He longs
for all of us to Love Him with all our heart, soul and mind, and to
love our neighbor as our self. It is time that we stand up and
possess our souls back, so that we can do what God has called us to
do. Spend time with Him and ask Him to reveal to you anyone or
anything that you may be tied to that you are not aware of. He will
show you. Let go and Let God.